Where your body's wisdom becomes your guide.
Where trauma processing and meaning-making happen together.
Where insights emerge that your mind couldn't find on its own.
Your mind understands. Your body hasn't caught up.
Maybe you've spent years in talk therapy...
processing your story, gaining insight, learning coping skills.
Or maybe you just know something in your nervous system is stuck,
even if you can't explain exactly what or why.
Either way, there's a gap between what you understand and what you feel.
Cognitive work alone doesn't reach the nervous system.
You can name the pattern, understand the trigger, articulate the trauma response...
but that doesn't mean your body has released it.
Your nervous system doesn't speak the language of logic.
Trauma memories don't resolve through understanding alone.
They need to be reprocessed and completed at the body level.
That's the missing piece. That's what EMDR intensives offer.
What Is EMDR?
(And Why the Intensive Format
Changes Everything)
EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is a science-backed therapy that helps your brain reprocess traumatic memories so they lose their emotional charge and reveal new meaning.
Think of it this way:
Trauma memories get "stuck" in your nervous system,...frozen with all the
fear, helplessness, and physical sensations from when they happened.
Your body keeps responding as if the threat is still present,
even when your mind knows you're safe.
EMDR helps your brain complete the processing it couldn't finish at the time.
And in that processing, something powerful happens: meaning-making.
Traditional EMDR in weekly 50-minute sessions often doesn't give your nervous system enough time to fully process.
You start to access the memory, the session ends, and your system never gets to complete the cycle...or discover the insights waiting on the other side.
EMDR intensives solve this.
With 4 uninterrupted hours, your nervous system can move through the full arc: accessing the memory, processing the distress, reaching resolution, and making meaning of what happened.
You're experiencing it the way it was designed to work...with enough time and somatic support for real change to land, and for your body's wisdom to emerge.
A private session for deep nervous system release, co-regulation, and clarity.
This is a space where your system doesn’t have to explain, justify, or perform.
It’s where healing meets embodiment...and your body gets to decide what’s next.
A nervous system-first approach where trauma processing and meaning-making happen together.
Map What's Driving Survival Mode
Release What Talk Therapy Can't Reach
Anchor Safety, Clarity & Self-Trust
Your nervous system needs to feel safe before it can heal.
Before we do any trauma processing, we create safety in the space together:
Building Your Container |
We establish internal resources...like the EMDR container technique and grounding practices...so you have a felt sense of safety and control.
Titrating the Work |
We move at the pace your nervous system sets. We work inside your window of tolerance...no heroics, no overwhelm.
Honoring Your Wisdom |
Your body knows what it needs and when. You're not here to perform or prove anything.
This is a space built to hold all of you.
Your trauma history isn't too much. Your emotional intensity isn't too much. Your story isn't too much. You've just never had a container designed for the depth you carry.
This is that container.
I require new clients to start with a minimum of a 4-hour intensive.
This format creates the conditions for real resolution...your nervous system gets the time it needs to process and complete what it couldn't before.
Available for Wisconsin & Ohio residents
4 hours of intensive EMDR and somatic processing via secure telehealth. Ideal for clients who thrive in the comfort of their own space.
4 hours of intensive work in a grounded, private sanctuary.
First session must be in-person. Follow-up sessions available virtually or in-home at my discretion.
Your home or local Airbnb within 45 minutes
For in-home intensives, travel is billed in 15-minute increments at $20 per 15 minutes. Minimum one 15-minute increment per travel day.
Message me to customize your experience.
You're insightful, intuitive, and a rock for everyone else...
while your system is buzzing underneath.
You might be a therapist, coach, nurse, director, attorney,
entrepreneur, or CEO...women who are heart-led and high-achieving.
✓ You've experienced decades of emotional labor and carry generational patterns
✓ You've done therapy (maybe somatics, too)...and it still hasn't fully landed
✓ Your body is speaking loudly: tight chest, buzzing limbs, shallow breath, gut tension, headaches/migraines
✓ You're functional, but not free...and you know there's more healing available
✓ You're ready to learn what your body has been trying to tell you
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
"What if my story is too much?"
It's not. And you're not.
The container is built for strong, sensitive women who've carried a lot. We pace for depth and dignity. Your trauma history isn't too much...it just requires the right modality, the right nervous system support, and a practitioner who isn't afraid of intensity.
This space was designed to hold all of you. Not the edited version. Not the "manageable" version. All of you.
"What if nothing changes? I've lost trust in healing."
You don't have to believe yet...just be willing to show up.
Your skepticism is welcome. We measure progress practically: sleep quality, startle response, shutdown patterns, guilt after setting boundaries. We track change with evidence...distress levels ratings, body sensations, lived experience.
You'll know what's shifting because you'll feel it in real time. Not because I tell you it's working, but because your body shows you.
"I can't justify spending on myself."
You're already paying...in exhaustion and self-abandonment. This is reclamation.
Investment here compounds everywhere else: capacity, relationships, leadership, rest, clarity. Private pay maintains privacy and pace that insurance doesn't get to dictate. This isn't an expense. It's the foundation everything else is built on.
What would it be worth to finally feel safe in your own body? To trust your intuitive knowing? To stop managing symptoms and actually resolve what's driving them?
"I don't know what I need."
Your body knows. We'll start there.
The Readiness Consultation clarifies goals, pace, and immediate supports. We begin with what your nervous system shows us...not perfection or overexplaining. In less than 20 minutes, we co-create a plan that suits your needs.
You don't have to have it all figured out. That's what the process is for.
"I don't have time."
This doesn't add to your plate. It helps you finally put things down.
A 4-hour intensive is designed for high-capacity women who can't add another weekly commitment. As your nervous system softens, tasks feel lighter, decisions get clearer, and time pressure eases.
This creates space...it doesn't consume it.
"What if it stirs up too much?"
We move at the pace of safety. Nothing is forced. Your nervous system leads.
We build your container first...before any trauma processing begins. We titrate inside your window of tolerance. Session structure, regulation tools, and aftercare planning keep you resourced throughout.
You're in control of the pace. Always.
"How is this different from talk therapy?"
Not more talk. Cellular-level integration and body-based insight.
We blend EMDR, trauma-conscious yoga, mindfulness, and EFT so your body can complete what talk therapy named. We track change with self reported measurable markers.
But here's what makes it different: meaning-making happens through the body. Insights emerge not from analysis, but from processing. Understanding lands because you felt it shift. You learn to trust your body's wisdom instead of overriding it.
You get resources that actually work...not performative coping skills that don't reach your nervous system.
"Why won't I see testimonials?"
As a licensed therapist, I follow ethics that protect confidentiality and prohibit client testimonials.
What I can share:
We use objective tools, measurable rating scales, and your lived experience to track change: less reactivity, more breath, steadier days, deeper sleep, clearer decisions.
Trauma isn't a life sentence. It's an adaptation we can gently unwind. Therapy with me has resulted in clients reporting life-changing results...resolving PTSD symptoms, releasing generational trauma patterns, and discovering insights that transformed how they understand themselves.
You'll know it's working because you'll feel it...not just understand it.
"Do I have to do a 4-hour intensive, or can I start with regular sessions?"
All new clients begin with a minimum 4-hour intensive. This isn't arbitrary...it's what creates the conditions for your nervous system to fully process trauma memories and access the insights waiting on the other side.
Traditional 50-minute sessions often don't provide enough time for your system to complete the processing cycle. The intensive format ensures you're not left mid-process, and that meaning-making can actually happen.
After your initial intensive, follow-up sessions are flexible: 55 minutes, 2-4 hour intensives, multi-day retreats, or even destination intensives to Puerto Rico. We'll co-create what serves your continued healing.
But what matters most:
Less distress around trauma memories.
More capacity to be present.
Insights you couldn't access before.
A deeper trust in your body's wisdom.
The sense that you're finally listening to what's been trying to emerge.
This is healing that changes how you move through the world.
About Me...
Licensed Psychotherapist (WI/OH) • Certified EMDR Therapist • RYT-200 (Trauma-Conscious Yoga) • Certified Mindfulness Practitioner • Trained in EFT & Trauma Tapping • 20+ Years of Experience
I help high-functioning, heart-centered women move from survival mode to embodied steadiness.
You're not broken. Your nervous system adapted to keep you safe, and with the right support, it can repattern.
My approach blends science-backed EMDR with body-based practices to help you access healing that doesn't just make sense intellectually—it lands in your cells. Where meaning-making and trauma processing happen together. Where you learn to trust your body's wisdom, maybe for the first time.
If this is resonating, trust that. Your body is already telling you something.
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